This approach is about each individual taking responsibility for their emotions, choices and actions. Most of the time we are not aware of what is motivating these. Rarely do we have any experience of this.
We are simply using the models we have learnt. So this is an opportunity to open this up in a respectful and safe place. You will be supported to explore what is motivating the way you are living, where you are making your choices from and how you can create your life as you do want.
It's not about any formula or magic results. It is based on your individual requirements. This approach is based in honesty, respect, clarity and love.
Do you feel that your life isn't as you want it to be? Are you feeling that you want more from your life? Do you feel that there is more to life than you are currently experiencing? Do you feel that there are re-occurring patterns in your life? Would you like to have more of an understanding of how you got to where you are? Have you had enough of your life being as it is?
If you have answered Yes , to any of these questions then please read on
In this setting you are supported to experience where and how you are making your choices. This is perhaps the most challenging and potent aspect of self change. In your personal sessions you are free to talk about your experiences and perceptions of what has been happening, allowing some perspective of the implications of this.
What have we actually learnt, regarding how to live in relationships? Most of the time we only find this out when our relationship is in crisis. We need to be able to have clear ownership of what is 'ours' in any relationship, without blame or guilt. This can be very challenging, yet it allows healthy loving relationships. To create this we are required to commit to change. With support this creates a stronger sense of Who we are and how we actually want to relate.
These retreats are a safe, suportive place for you to open up and release patterns , programs and emotion that prevent you from living in a loving way. Often this is difficult, because of many issues or challenges, that haven't been spoken of, preventing us from creating the life we do want. In the retreats you get to experience how many of us share commo pain, patterns and traumas. Allowing yourself to change, is a very powerful choice. It allows you to break free of the familiar patterns of relating. This opens you up to the ability of creating a different basis for relating with yourself and others.
Often it can seem that change is very challenging, unattainable or unenduring. Yet the truth is that change is the constant of life.
Healthy change is possible, once we get clear, with what we are actually doing and how we are makng our choices.
Martin runs regular themed retreats . To ensure optimal benefit for all participants, there is a maximum of 12 people per Retreat.
Martin Male BSc has over 35 years experience, supporting people to create loving, healthy and fulfilling relationships. This is based in grounded, practical experience, not abstract theoretical concepts. This is about you creating and holding a clear sense of Who you are and what is important to you. You will be supported to create, develop and maintain a healthy relationship with yourself first, from here all else is created. For more details please click here.
